Welcome to Throuple where couples come to meet singles and for singles wanting to meet couples for a long term mutually exclusive relationship.
Throuple is for secure couples of any sex that seek that special unique person that compliments their lifestyle.
Where does Throuple come from? A blend of the words three and couple, a throuple is a polyamorous relationship also sometimes called a triad, ménage à trois, or, for a bonus blend, threelationship.
Making sure your current relationship is stable is one of the most important pieces of advice before seeking a third partner.
Adding another person to an unstable partnership is a recipe for hurt feelings. If you think kinky group sex will save your failing relationship, most of those who have tried it can tell you that it won't.
Here are some signs that your monogamous relationship will not survive opening it up to a third person:
1. you don't trust each other
2. you aren't honest with each other
3. you feel anger towards each other for past and current failings
4. you're having an affair and want to cover it up or legitimize it by forming a trio
5. you're afraid your partner will leave you if you don't agree to add a third person
6. So don't be scared to seek couples counseling to improve your duo communication before you go for a trio.
Group sex should be an experience that all members enjoy. Not everyone has to enjoy the experience equally, but everyone should be in it because they want to be with both other people.
It's probably not a promising idea to choose former lovers or friends when you're seeking a third person. Former lovers come with the emotional baggage of a break-up, and it may ruin a friendship forever if it doesn't work out.
Recruiting a third person from a non-monogamy friendly online dating club, like Throuple is an option that you may want to try.
However you go about selecting your third person, all three of you should have some compatibility and rapport with the other two and find them sexually attractive.
How do you introduce a third person in a relationship?
Introducing a third person into a relationship is a common fantasy. There are a variety of ways you can look for a third person or "guest star." You may meet this new person organically in person, or you and your partner might join dating sites, apps, or similar platforms to seek a third person together. Before you look for a third person to enter your relationship, it's important to make sure that this is something you and your partner want mutually and equally. If it isn't, this pursuit will likely cause the partner who doesn't want to introduce a third to feel jealous or hurt as well as disrespected. Never join dating websites or apps without checking it over with your partner. If you and your partner do find a third person online, it's vital that you feel safe about meeting up in person. Take all of the necessary precautions, such as making sure to use video chat first to confirm that you know who you're talking to and meeting up in a public place when you and your spouse or partner see them in person for the first time regardless.
If you're single, a throuple may work well for you if:
you're attracted physically, emotionally, spiritually, and — if the relationship is going to be sexual — sexually to both parties.
you experience comparsion and have healthy coping skills for jealousy.
Throuple welcomes you to join and help us build this global community.
